• THAILAND

    2028

    Join me for an insider journey through Bangkok — and CELEBRATE 50 with me. This is a chance to experience the many layers of this magnetic and breathtaking place. From electric city nights in Bangkok-with an add on of sun drenched days along the sea, we’ll explore, indulge, and move through this stunning country together. Travel, connect, and celebrate with other queer, trans, and nonbinary people of color in what promises to be an unforgettable journey.

    BANGKOK

    February 3rd-6th

  • Weekend. Itinerary.

    Join Their Excellency, Black Queer Dom for an EXTRAORDINARY birthday weekend.

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    This Trip is INVITE ONLY.

    I'm celebrating the BIG 50 in Bangkok with 100 of my Friends & Family! I'm thrilled to share a city that I love with so many. Whther this is your first time or your 50th, I hope the journey offers something new that brings you joy. If you have been invited you are welcome to bring a +1 but more than that, check in to ensure we have space for everyone who wants to attend and celebrate with me. LOTS more to come in the schedule and events. Below is a rough guide so that folks can get started monthly payments now. My starting early, it makes the trip so much more accesible.

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    Thursday, February 3rd 2028

    WELCOME TO BANGKOK!

    • 8:30am: Early arrivals are welcome to join a private long-tail boat journey through Bangkok’s historic canals and the Chao Phraya River. This experience offers an intimate look at the quieter waterways of the city — passing temples, stilt homes, floating markets, and local life that many visitors never see. Light bites and fresh juice will be provided before departure.
    • 7am-3:00 PM — Hotel Check In
    • 4:30 PM — Spiritual Market & Amulet District We’ll begin our cultural journey with a visit to Bangkok’s famous amulet and spiritual markets, where locals seek blessings, protective charms, incense, and sacred objects connected to Buddhist and animist traditions.
    • 6:30 PM — Welcome Dinner in the Old City. We’ll gather for our opening dinner in Bangkok’s historic district, sharing incredible Thai cuisine while meeting fellow travelers and setting the tone for the week ahead. Expect bold flavors, beautiful dishes, and warm conversation.
    • Then we will do a Bangkok Crawl of my favorite Queer bars and catch the ladyboy performers live. We’ll wrap up the evening with a classic Bangkok treat — mango sticky rice or Thai rolled ice cream from a night market vendor — before heading back to the hotel. A sweet ending to our first night together in this vibrant city.
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    Friday, Feberuary 4th 2028

    We’ll begin the day with breakfast at the hotel, easing into the rhythm of the morning before stepping into some of Thailand’s most meaningful cultural traditions.

    • 9:00am: Garland Making Experience— Our morning begins with a hands-on Thai garland making workshop, where we’ll learn the traditional art of crafting floral garlands often offered at temples as symbols of gratitude, respect, and blessing. Each guest will create their own garland to bring with us as visit one of Bangkok’s most iconic temples later in the day.
    • 10:00am Thai Massage course. Learn to offer one of the most powerful massage techniques in the world! Ideal for wellness travelers, couples, and culture seekers, this tour combines history, spirituality, and self-care in a meaningful way.
    • 10:00am Explore Bangkok's rich cultural heritage by visiting the Grand Palace. Marvel at the stunning architecture of the Grand Palace, home to the Emerald Buddha,learn the cultural significance behind this iconic site.
    • 2:00 PM: Wat Arun Photoshoot— We’ll make our way to Wat Arun — the Temple of Dawn, one of the most breathtaking landmarks in Bangkok. You will have the opportunity to participate in an optional professional photoshoot, capturing stunning images against the temple’s intricate architecture in tradiitonal attire. A perfect moment to dress beautifully and embody the elegance of the setting.
    • 4:00 PM: After our morning of exploration, we’ll return to the hotel for time to rest, refresh, or enjoy the pool before the evening’s experiences
    • 7:00 PM: Dinner in Chinatown— explore the night market's food and buzz. With stalls that tell the story of Thailand through seasonal ingredients, traditional techniques, and impeccable presentation. For those READY...we will hit the clubs!
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    Saturday, February 5th

    Morning breakfast then we dive into the FULL DAY.

    • 10:00am: Thai Cooking Experience Next, we’ll step into the kitchen for a Thai cooking class, learning how to prepare some of the country’s most beloved dishes. Guided by a local chef, we’ll explore the ingredients, techniques, and traditions that make Thai cuisine so vibrant and unforgettable. After cooking together, we’ll sit down to enjoy the delicious meal we’ve created.
    • 1:00 PM: IconSiam Bangkok’s Iconic Mall — In the afternoon we’ll explore one of Bangkok’s stylish café and shopping districts, known for its beautifully designed cafés, fashion-forward boutiques, and vibrant atmosphere. This is the perfect time to wander, shop, take photos, and experience the playful, modern side of Bangkok’s culture.
    • 3:00 PM: After our day of exploration, we’ll return to the hotel for time to rest, refresh, or enjoy the pool before the evening’s experiences.
    • 7:00 PM: My Harlem Nights Birthday Soiree! Hosted in A Hidden Live Music Bar in Sukhumvit. A 1920's inspired space, this evening will blend vintage elegance with a unapologetic Black Queer aesthetic.Enjoy the cigar lounge, community energy, craft cocktails, red carpet performances and night of MAGIC.
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    Sunday, February 6th

    After a FULLLL and INCREDIBLE Weekend we will say goodbye. But the memories will last a lifetime. Check out is at 1pm. But VIP Guests are welcome to stay until Monday.

    • 11am-4pm Folks can book a mssage all afternoon in the spa (VIP folks its included). A spa known for blending traditional Thai healing practices with modern wellness rituals. You will enjoy a 90-minute traditional Thai massage designed to release tension, improve circulation, and restore balance to the body.
    • We will close out the weekend at one of my faviroite Five Star restaurants. One last toast to celebrate life.

  • Reserve Your Spot TODAY

    This Birthday Immersion is INVITE ONLY.

    Please see our Terms of Service HERE

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    Solo Traveler

    (Single Double Bed in

    a Shared Hotel Room)

    $2,000.00

    Celebrate Sir/Cole for their BIG 50 in Bangkok, Thailand!

    2.3 to 2.6.2028

    Once you select your plan, you will recieve details to make monthly payments via Zelle.

    NOT INCLUDED

    -Flight to Bangkok

    -Meals not mentioned

    -Alcoholic Drinks

    -Local Ground Transportation

    -Travel Insurance

    -Tips & Gratuities

    Recommended

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    Couples & Homies

    (Shared Queen or 2 Doubles)

    $3,00.00

    Celebrate Sir/Cole for their BIG 50 in Bangkok, Thailand!

    2.3 to 2.6.2028

    Once you select your plan, you will recieve details to make monthly payments via Zelle.

    NOT INCLUDED

    -Flight to Bangkok

    -Meals not mentioned

    -Alcoholic Drinks

    -Local Ground Transportation

    -Travel Insurance

    -Tips & Gratuities

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    VIP Upgrade

    (Come early, stay late + Dine!)

    $700.00

    With this option are welcome to check in 2/2 and check out Monday February 7th

    (my actual birthday!)

    This option is limited to the first 20 folks that add it on. And includes a massage on Sunday and a closing Dinner.

    PLUS: All VIP rooms are stocked with non alcoholic drinks, cold pressed juice, champagne and your favoirte snacks!

    NOT INCLUDED

    -Flight to Bangkok

    -Meals not mentioned

    -Alcoholic Drinks

    -Local Ground Transportation

    -Travel Insurance

    -Tips & Gratuities